Frequently Asked First Dance Questions answered by Your Perfect Wedding Dance
While many questions that I get asked by the newly engaged couple are specific for their wedding, there are a good number of repetitive ones. When should I start learning how to dance?; What type of music should I use?; How many lessons do we need? These are some of the most common questions I answer on a weekly basis. Here is a list of some of the common concerns couples have in regards to taking their first wedding dance lesson. Enjoy!
1- We are not good dancers, will this be difficult for us to learn?
Every lesson is perfectly customized to your dance level. You don't have to be a dancer of any kind to be able to gracefully move about the dance floor. Just keep in mind, the more you rehearse after your class, the better you will feel and the more natural you will dance.
2- How many lessons do we need?
This is a tough one. Your instructor will not be able to precisely assess your dance skills until after your first lesson. Once your instructor sees how well you pick up the dance moves, choreography and your level of coordination, then they can advise you on the number of lessons to achieve your dance.
3- What should we bring to the lesson?
You really don't need to bring anything special for your dance lesson. Wearing comfortable clothing could be different for everyone. Whether wearing sneakers and pants or a dress with heels is your comfort zone, go for it. If you want to try dancing in your wedding attire or just bring wedding props, like a veil, you're more than welcome to bring those with you.
4- The tempo of our song changes halfway through the song, will this be possible to work with?
Typically the tempo stays the same throughout the song but rhythms may change. This may make you believe that the tempo has been affected. It is very rare that tempo's change in the song but if they do, it is very easy to work with and incorporate into your dance.
5- Is it possible to dance to multiple songs?
Yes! The combination of multiple songs will make your first dance that much more exciting. Simply bring your already cut song to your dance lesson so your instructor can choreograph with the transitions. It is also important to keep in mind that learning more than 1 dance will require more practice on your part.
6- When should we start learning our first dance?
Typically I recommend starting anywhere from 1.5 to 1 month out before the big day. This way you have enough time to learn your wedding dance and have enough time to rehearse on your own. As well, this time frame keeps the wedding date close by so you don't forget your dance by the wedding. This does not mean you cant start sooner. The earlier you start, the more comfortable you will feel dancing--as long as you practice.
7- What type of music should we use?
The best song to use for your first dance is the one you fell in love with. There really is no specific type of music to dance to. It can be anything from slow to fast, happy or romantic, techno or classical. As long as there's a rhythm, you can dance to it!
If you find you have questions specific to your wedding, please don't hesitate to call or email us any time at yblinova@yourperfectweddingdance.com!
Happy Dancing!
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