Your Perfect Wedding
Dance
Fearing the Wedding Dance Lesson
It is completely normal and expected for the groom
to feel anxious, overwhelmed and fearful of dancing in general, let alone the
most important dance of his life. Here are some tips and suggestions to help
your significant other through this time!!
It is your wedding day, you’ve planned for it,
obsessed over it, haven’t slept over it, and slightly over paid for it.
However, it is going to be the most wonderful event that the two of you are a
part of and as they say, Enjoy the
Journey!
Try and see his side of the story. What fears or
anxiety does the groom have, why is there so much push back about attending
dance lessons and spending yet more money. Whether he can’t hear the beat, he
feels he has 2 left feet, he’s replaying a Dancing with the Stars episode in
his head, whatever it may be, it’s a logical and very real stress factor for
the groom.
Wedding dance lessons are everything but the
opposite of fear. It’s important to give praise to help boost confidence,
encourage the smallest victories (stepping to the beat of the music or leading
the lady into the proper dip).
In all the
years I’ve been teaching, 100% of the time, once the groom has attended the
first wedding dance lesson, all fear and doubt has left his mind. Guys usually
end up loving to dance! They realize that for those 45 minutes, they are in charge! At Your Perfect
Wedding Dance, the goal is to actually teach you both how to dance, not
simply put together a routine and hope that the groom won’t blank or freeze on
the dance floor. A wedding dance instructor is a specialist at coming up with
fun dance moves that you will be able to execute over and over again years
after you’ve learned them.
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